Getting out of ackward situations

Here are some guidelines that will help you with safer dating.

1. Limit the information you share. Do not give your home or work address to someone who in not known to you.

2. Double Date. Date with a friend, group of friends, or a couple you know. Safety is in numbers.

3. Let someone know where you are. Leave someone you date "details" - when you are leaving, where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to return.

4. Drive your own car. Having your own transportation allows you control over your situation and is both safe and practical.

5. Date on your turf. Spend your first date somewhere that is familiar to you or where others may know you. If you choose to go to an unfamiliar place, take the TEST: study your surroundings for safety nets such as:

T Telephones - to make a call.
E Exits - to leave the building.
S Security - in case you need help.
T Traffic - as in people traffic, so that you're never alone with your date.

6. Take along your cell phone. If you don't have one, consider investing in a pre-paid cell phone and/or calling card. As an alternative, carry enough change to make at least two calls from a pay phone.

7. Trust your instincts. If your date acts suspiciously or you do not feel comfortable, leave immediately. Your safety and well-being come before politeness in an uncomfortable situation.